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One of my main areas of focus in counseling is with eating disorders, where long-held beliefs and behaviors are deeply ingrained in the body's memory. In these situations, where people keep turning and returning to self-destructive behaviors, one of the most effective ways to shift the response mechanism is with a tool called, "opposite action." Using this tool, we can start to recondition the body's cellular belief system, or cellular DNA (different from our genetic DNA, which is actually only responsible for 5% of our health outcome). From this model, we can turn major obstacles into personal victories and begin to heal our ED, or any addictive, compulsive or self-destructive pattern.
Here's how it works: Let's say it's lunchtime, and you eat something out of your normal routine for food. You are at work, and to celebrate a coworkers birthday, they've brought in the most delicious chocolate mousse cake, so you join in and have a big slice. It's luscious; really yummy. Now it's
mid-afternoon, and there's a voice in your head saying something like this: "Maybe I'll skip out on dinner tonight. It was really too much for me to have that cake. It must be hundreds of calories. I am not allowed to have that and have dinner, too. Ok, I'll just have an apple, or maybe some carrots. Shoot, I'm really mad at myself for eating that stupid cake. Now I'm sure to gain five pounds. I'm going to look really bad. Ok, I'm just going to skip dinner. Maybe I'll skip dinner, go for a run and then eat really light for breakfast. I hate myself for eating that cake! Forget it, maybe I should just eat more cake, since I'm fat already."
We know this kind of self-talk is sure to send you down the rabbit hole, so to speak. What do you do now? It's time for opposite action, which is originally attributed to Sigmund Freud's daughter, Anna Freud, whose focus was on "adopting a behavior that is opposite of the instinctual urge - acting opposite" with regards to"reaction formation." When the first negative thought comes up, take an opposite action. Move the thought out of your head and replace it with a new one. When you start to think about the piece of cake and skipping dinner, think about something soothing, like the great day you just had with your friend or the trip you have planned. It's helpful to add in a physical change, such as removing yourself from your immediate environment, by getting up and walking around the office. This can release the body's hold on the negative impulse and replace it with a new and different somatic (body-centered) experience. That's where I believe we want to both shift the thought and shift our body's experience of the thought, adding in the cellular belief component.
When you get home and it's dinner time, boom, if the thought comes up again, do some opposite action self-talk: "Dinner is so nourishing for my body. I completely trust my choices. I know I have a right to eat dinner." Use intentions and affirmations like these to support the action of preparing dinner. Incorporate some deep breathing to shift the cellular response, which would typically be constricted or tight with the disturbing thoughts. Expand your body and open up your thoughts beyond the repetitive.
After dinner, continue with some more affirmations, such as, "I love everything I ate. This food really nurtures me and supports my body. I am calm and content."
Opposite action can be used to break any cycle of addiction, including the pull we sometimes feel to stay in unhealthy relationships or situations that compromise our highest good by feeling good for the moment. The key is to turn to the opposite thought no matter how much you want to dwell on the destructive one; just choose the other. It's also a great tool for people grieving a relationship that has recently ended, when self-doubts and mistrust often come in.
Once you start to recondition your cellular DNA by taking opposite action more often, you will feel an enormous sense of liberation, as if the chains you couldn't break for years have just been untied, and you no longer have to be in bondage to yourself. Try it and see.
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Thursday, October 25, 2012
How to Shift the Genetic Code
Did you know that only five percent (5%) of how our physical and emotional health turns out is from genetics? The other ninety five percent (95%) is from environment; what we choose to feed our body, both nutritionally and emotionally. This taps into what I call, "Learning how to shift our cellular belief system, or 'cellular DNA'."
We are never too old to start giving our bodies new messages to reverse and recondition the old messages that were fed to us. A large part of what I do in counseling, whether guiding someone who is in an abusive or high-conflict relationship or working with a person with long-term eating disorder (my two areas of focus), is to have them create a new vision for their lives and their health.
Initially, when we are suffering and in emotional or physical pain, it is hard to perceive or believe this is possible. Shifting the glass from half empty to half full may seem like a stretch, but it only starts with a small step that is infinitely large.
"Change your thoughts to change your consciousness," the quantum physicists teach us. Dr. Masuro Emoto, who wrote, "Messages from Water," microscopically photographed water molecules both when "fed" negative, hateful verbal messages or loving, positive affirmations. These molecules shone whole, healthy and sparkling, like diamond crystals, when receiving the positive messages. They looked diseased and dark when fed negative human dialogue. Astounding, right? Not really, when you begin to understand molecules or atoms as energy, and energy as shiftable or mutable.
We are comprised of seventy eight percent water, and we, too, respond by either sparkling as our highest selves or shrinking into pain and suffering, depending upon the messages we feed ourselves. We want to continually feed ourselves messages that affirm our highest worth, and if that seems untenable to reach for, we can do it in small increments.
Here is a great technique that anyone can bring in to start the process of reconditioning their cellular DNA. Early morning, before you get out of bed and while you welcome in the start of a new day, is the most powerful time to begin this process. We have just come from our sleep state, where all the truths of our subconscious have been dancing in our dreams. Often, we wake up carrying dark messages without even knowing. Here are some cellular affirmations you can say out loud at this time:
I am worthy
I am filled with self-love
Everything I eat today digests perfectly in my body
I trust my food to love and nourish me
I am loveable
I am perfect exactly as I am
I love and trust my body
I have the most fabulous day
I stay clear and focused today
I move through my day easily
Notice that these statements are in the present; not the past or future. We say them as if they already exist. Even if you feel "fat and ugly," you can say, "I love and trust my body" as if you already do. When you wake up with shame, you can still say, "I am loveable," and picture yourself smiling with self-love. We literally shift our cellular belief system by being "in the activity" of speaking it as if it is already so.
We have the capacity to personally design and choose our lives in the way we sometimes only secretly desire and long for them to be. We have the opportunity to shed any old messages that were fed to us, no matter how abusive or harmful. Because we are energy, and energy is able to change, we can change, too; just by saying we are. I have seen extraordinary responses and results with clients from following this method. I encourage you to try it for yourself. Once we rise up to meet ourselves from this higher place, the universe rises up to meet us there as well; it's the law of quantum physics. And remember, it's not about perfection; it is all part of the process, so play with it and see what happens.
We are never too old to start giving our bodies new messages to reverse and recondition the old messages that were fed to us. A large part of what I do in counseling, whether guiding someone who is in an abusive or high-conflict relationship or working with a person with long-term eating disorder (my two areas of focus), is to have them create a new vision for their lives and their health.
Initially, when we are suffering and in emotional or physical pain, it is hard to perceive or believe this is possible. Shifting the glass from half empty to half full may seem like a stretch, but it only starts with a small step that is infinitely large.
"Change your thoughts to change your consciousness," the quantum physicists teach us. Dr. Masuro Emoto, who wrote, "Messages from Water," microscopically photographed water molecules both when "fed" negative, hateful verbal messages or loving, positive affirmations. These molecules shone whole, healthy and sparkling, like diamond crystals, when receiving the positive messages. They looked diseased and dark when fed negative human dialogue. Astounding, right? Not really, when you begin to understand molecules or atoms as energy, and energy as shiftable or mutable.
We are comprised of seventy eight percent water, and we, too, respond by either sparkling as our highest selves or shrinking into pain and suffering, depending upon the messages we feed ourselves. We want to continually feed ourselves messages that affirm our highest worth, and if that seems untenable to reach for, we can do it in small increments.
Here is a great technique that anyone can bring in to start the process of reconditioning their cellular DNA. Early morning, before you get out of bed and while you welcome in the start of a new day, is the most powerful time to begin this process. We have just come from our sleep state, where all the truths of our subconscious have been dancing in our dreams. Often, we wake up carrying dark messages without even knowing. Here are some cellular affirmations you can say out loud at this time:
I am worthy
I am filled with self-love
Everything I eat today digests perfectly in my body
I trust my food to love and nourish me
I am loveable
I am perfect exactly as I am
I love and trust my body
I have the most fabulous day
I stay clear and focused today
I move through my day easily
Notice that these statements are in the present; not the past or future. We say them as if they already exist. Even if you feel "fat and ugly," you can say, "I love and trust my body" as if you already do. When you wake up with shame, you can still say, "I am loveable," and picture yourself smiling with self-love. We literally shift our cellular belief system by being "in the activity" of speaking it as if it is already so.
We have the capacity to personally design and choose our lives in the way we sometimes only secretly desire and long for them to be. We have the opportunity to shed any old messages that were fed to us, no matter how abusive or harmful. Because we are energy, and energy is able to change, we can change, too; just by saying we are. I have seen extraordinary responses and results with clients from following this method. I encourage you to try it for yourself. Once we rise up to meet ourselves from this higher place, the universe rises up to meet us there as well; it's the law of quantum physics. And remember, it's not about perfection; it is all part of the process, so play with it and see what happens.
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